No one plans to ……
Yo,
Hello to all my dear friends. Really busy now a days. Talk to some of my friends and also came to know some of the problems that my friends had been going through. Well, humans are just humans. The bottom line is we just wan the best for ourselves, which at times lead to not thinking abet others.
No one plans to hurt anyone from the start of a relationship, be it BR, family and even friends. It just that we humans at times forget that loving the people around you means alto more than just thinking of them putting you 1st place, but is ourselves to put our love ones at 1st place.
Come on let Ah long talk a bit and share with you something that I often do. Hew..
People always think that Eve and me are doing fine, no fights and troubles, peace and loving forever. The fact is, we dun see eye to eye most of the time and I can been quite unreasonable at times (and so is she). At the end of the day, when a couple 1st come together the 1st think on our mind is "this is the person I will take good care of…..". Love is a big word, it is not only for good times also but bad times.
How sad it is when people work so hard in their life, earning big bucks to buy a big house for their parents to enjoy life, to earn and save enough money for our children future, but things sometime just dun turn out as we plan. We spend some much time and effort in our work, and most of the time we fail to notice or care for the reason for working hard…. our love ones.
How many times have we tell our gif or bf " sorry we can’t go out today, because of my work….. "
or how many times have we tell our dad and mom " sorry I’m not coming home for dinner because I’m eating with friends ….. "
or how many times have we tell our good old friends " sorry, very busy nowadays, can we meet some other time ….. "
My dear friends, please let be reminded not to forget the people around us that cares for us the most. At the end of the day, it is your family, love one and true friends that really cares abet you. Our work is just work, we are there to " make things move ". Image a tool that serve well in a workshop for 20, 30 years that fix and serve all the cars that come in. Did a good job all the time, but when one fine day the tool is damaged, unable to serve the workshop any more, " IT " will be thrown away.
Some things that we view important in life, in the end might be worthless. Chinese saying " Money is forever earn not finish de ", but how much relationship can you earn, where you lose it.
Abt 3, 4 weeks ago I’ve attended 3 funerals. And you can see how sad their family and friends are when their love ones left them. Ones life is short, cherish the people around you before it’s too late.
Last words:
for those who are suffering, dun give up hope easily. give them time and show concern.
for those WHO cause the suffering, WAKE UP!!! reconcil before it’s too late.
Let us not forget who our 1st love is. Sometimes, say sorry works… At least for me….
God bless to all my friends
Ahlong
July 7th, 2006 at 7:24 pm
Amazing write-up by victor here, I must say. No doubt there is a lot to “love” and just simply saying “i love you” and relationship do play a major part in life.
Well, life still goes on ……